's Memoirs books in order

Dave Pelzer's memoir series chronicles his life from extreme childhood abuse through foster care, military service, and adulthood across seven books published from 1995 to 2023.

Reading order

# Title Published Author Buy on Amazon
1 A Child Called: One Child’s Courage to Survive 1995 Dave Pelzer Buy
2 The Lost Boy: A Foster Child’s Search for the Love of a Family 1997 Dave Pelzer Buy
3 A Man Named Dave: A Story of Triumph and Forgiveness 1999 Dave Pelzer Buy
4 My Story 2002 Dave Pelzer Buy
5 The Privilege of Youth: A Teenager’s Story 2004 Dave Pelzer Buy
6 Too Close to Me: The Middle-Aged Consequences of Revealing a Child Called It 2014 Dave Pelzer Buy
7 Return to the River 2023 Dave Pelzer Buy

A Child Called It became one of the best-selling memoirs of the 1990s almost by accident. Dave Pelzer’s account of the abuse he suffered as a child in California struck a nerve with readers in a way that few similar books had managed, partly because of the directness of his writing and partly because the story did not end in despair. The book opens on the morning he was finally removed from his mother’s home, framing what follows as a story about survival rather than victimhood.

The follow-up books expand the picture considerably. The Lost Boy covers the foster care system he moved through as a teenager, and A Man Named Dave picks up in his adult years as he tries to build a stable life and reconcile with the past. My Story collects all three into a single volume. The Privilege of Youth and Too Close to Me circle back to earlier periods, the first offering a companion perspective on his foster care years, the second reflecting on the unexpected consequences of publishing his story.

Return to the River, published in 2023, is the most recent addition and brings Pelzer’s account up to later life. Readers who have followed the series from the beginning will find it a fitting continuation of a story that has always been about more than what happened to him as a child.

Frequently Asked Questions

How many books are in the 's Memoirs series?

There are seven books in the ’s Memoirs series, published between 1995 and 2023.

What is the first book in the 's Memoirs series?

The first book in the ’s Memoirs series is A Child Called: One Child’s Courage to Survive, published in 1995.

Do Dave Pelzer's memoirs need to be read in order?

Yes, reading the memoirs in order gives the fullest picture of Pelzer’s life. The first three books form a closely connected trilogy covering his childhood abuse, foster care years, and early adult life. Later books like The Privilege of Youth and Too Close to Me revisit earlier periods or reflect on how the earlier books changed his life, so having that foundation helps.

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